{"id":419,"date":"2020-06-16T15:42:55","date_gmt":"2020-06-16T18:42:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cel.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/?page_id=419"},"modified":"2022-08-03T14:57:11","modified_gmt":"2022-08-03T17:57:11","slug":"what-should-i-do","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/what-should-i-do\/","title":{"rendered":"Aconselhamento com should"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Autoria: Profa. Mariana Zeferino<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>N\u00edvel: B2<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lh6.googleusercontent.com\/T0kLgij2Y8qiKQ7QuTawjeCraIft5xVd-A9-wxOt1NhNNQSdSJKxDuoqKonXnV9r_GO3jxTPbLCOxfleE3Uu_J_R_mQKP93A5ZyN8k6zIiSvmT8V3lhLiLI-gQS6C95Cri5EDpDt\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>&nbsp;Comece perguntando aos alunos, se eles s\u00e3o bons em dar conselhos; se costumam pedir conselhos e para quem; se j\u00e1 participaram de algum AdviceColumn em r\u00e1dio, internet etc. e se acham uma boa ideia pedir conselhos atrav\u00e9s desses meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/li><li>Em seguida, entregue aleatoriamente aos alunos tiras de papel \u2013 um peda\u00e7o<\/li><li>de papel por aluno. Nesses peda\u00e7os de papel h\u00e1 um pequeno texto descrevendo uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o:&nbsp;<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Dear E. Jean<\/strong>: I\u2019m a pretty, smart girl who\u2019s gone through shattering, horrible, tragic heartbreak because of a man I absolutely adored. After I spent half a year getting to know him, then a year and a half in the South trying to develop a relationship with him, he unceremoniously dumped me. I came to my senses, moved back to New York, and began a new career. My problem? He is flying in for business and has asked me to dinner. Should I even bother spending an evening with this man? And if I end up seeing him, do I play it cool? Or should I be all sugar, like I normally am? I really want him to eat his heart out! Clearly I\u2019ve lost all perspective.<\/li><li><strong>Dear E. Jean<\/strong>: I have a quiet personality. I speak softly. I\u2019ve tried to talk louder. I\u2019ve tried saying, \u201cPlease hear me out.\u201d I\u2019ve even raised my voice and said, \u201cPlease listen!\u201d And yet, 9 times out of 10, men interrupt and talk over me. They even go so far as to tell me to \u201ccalm down\u201d when I\u2019ve raised my voice and am in the middle of saying I would like to \u201cfinish my thought.\u201d Why can men use a firm voice and talk over people, yet if a woman does it, they want her to shut up and listen? If a woman is assertive, she\u2019s considered a bitch or told to calm down. I\u2019m beyond pissed.<\/li><li><strong>Dear E. Jean<\/strong>: My boyfriend\u2019s mother constantly talks about his ex-girlfriends. She praises their beauty, charm, and achievements; tags them in posts on Facebook; and always \u201cloves\u201d their updates and photos. (She ignores mine.) She makes sure both my boyfriend and I are informed\u2014on a daily basis\u2014about his exes and their well- being. Instead of congratulating me on my recent accomplishments, she asks me to help find his ex-girlfriends jobs at my company! My boyfriend is an only child. She is a single mother who took his moving out and moving in with me very emotionally. (Bear in mind: He\u2019s in his mid-twenties!) We have agreed to spend weekends with her to \u201ckeep the peace.\u201d My boyfriend has been very vocal, insisting she stop talking about his exes in front of us, but she reacted by hiring a private detective to find dirt on me and my family. I\u2019m desperate!<\/li><li><strong>Dear E. Jean<\/strong>: Friends seem to be drifting away. I contact them and suggest we meet for drinks or dinner, and they usually reply with, \u201cOh! I\u2019m not in town that day\u201d; Or, \u201cGosh! I\u2019ve got a ton of work that week!\u201d; Then, when I ask if I should just let them alone, they act surprised! What does all this mean? I don\u2019t know if I should give up on them or not.<\/li><li><strong>Dear E. Jean<\/strong>: Should I leave everything and go on a road trip? I\u2019m 27, with an okay job (but no promotions or salary increases in five years), and I\u2019m still living with my parents. Last year, I read Cheryl Strayed\u2019s Wild and started fantasizing about driving across the country on a great American adventure. My mom quit her job at 26 to backpack through Europe. I want to quit my job and travel while I\u2019m young and single\u2014but the risk! Wouldn\u2019t it be smarter to flood the market with my r\u00e9sum\u00e9 and focus on finding another 9-to-5 that pays better? \u2014My Youth Is Slipping Away<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>3. Os alunos devem relacionar o trecho do papel \u00e0s situa\u00e7\u00f5es. Cada uma das 5 situa\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e1 relacionada a um trecho a seguir:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>Should I get dinner with my ex? He hurt me so much, and I made a new life elsewhere. Now he&#8217;s here, visiting, and wants to see me. <\/em>(<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/advice\/a32848\/ask-e-jean-ex-dinner\/\">https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/advice\/a32848\/ask-e-jean-ex-dinner\/<\/a>)&nbsp;<\/li><li><em>How can I make my voice heard at work? ( <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/a27458899\/ask-e-jean-difficult-male-coworkers\/\"><em>https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/a27458899\/ask-e-jean-difficult-male-coworkers\/<\/em><\/a><em> )<\/em><\/li><li><em>My Boyfriend&#8217;s Mother Keeps Praising His Ex-Girlfriends In Front of Me <\/em>(<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/a27763061\/ask-e-jean-boyfriend-difficult-mother\/\">https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/a27763061\/ask-e-jean-boyfriend-difficult-mother\/<\/a>)<\/li><li><em>My Friends Keep Rescheduling On Me. Should I just give up on them? (<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/advice\/a28103\/ask-e-jean-friends-rescheduling\/\"><em>https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/advice\/a28103\/ask-e-jean-friends-rescheduling\/<\/em><\/a><em>)&nbsp;<\/em><\/li><li><em>Should I Quit My Job to Travel? (<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/a22627937\/ask-e-jean-quit-job-travel\/\"><em>https:\/\/www.elle.com\/life-love\/ask-e-jean\/a22627937\/ask-e-jean-quit-job-travel<\/em><\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p> 4. Uma vez que o(a) aluno(a) conseguir relacionar o texto e a situa\u00e7\u00e3o (pe\u00e7a para a classe ler os pap\u00e9is em voz alta), solicite que ele(a) proponha um conselho para a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autoria: Profa. Mariana Zeferino N\u00edvel: B2 &nbsp;Comece perguntando aos alunos, se eles s\u00e3o bons em dar conselhos; se costumam pedir conselhos e para quem; se j\u00e1 participaram de algum AdviceColumn em r\u00e1dio, internet etc. e se acham uma boa ideia pedir conselhos atrav\u00e9s desses meios de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o Em seguida, entregue [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1181,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-419","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/419","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=419"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/419\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1175,"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/419\/revisions\/1175"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1181"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/raple.fclar.unesp.br\/ingles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=419"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}